Chapter 10 - Mary Jane DeShon & Izzy Idonije, Heroes

GENROZT: a gracious act that creates a joyful ache every time it is remembered

OPENING

Sometimes I replay my Highlights of Stephen's Life that I store in my long term memory. You probably do this too, with your version of the little trophy you got as the highest goal scorer when you were 10; that first kiss with a girl named Beverly; the drive to your first job in that blue convertible; the last raucous camping/canoeing trip with your Dad and brothers; holding your first born, and hugging him 25 years later. My highlight reel has an audio track too with Earth Wind & Fire's 'September' cranked way up.

You understand.

Which is why you'll appreciate my powerful, two-hour highlight from February 26, 2010 when Mrs. DeShon, in her 40th year teaching 1st grade, and Izzy Idonije, defensive end for the Chicago Bears, teamed up because one was named Teacher of the Month by a local university, and the other came to Our Lady of Destiny grade school as part of her celebration.


CLOSING

Thinking of the many gifts Mrs. DeShon brought to blossoming scholars and their families across four decades has me remember my beloved highschool history teacher, E.J. Barry. He also taught English, directed plays, and coached hockey. Emmett's middle name, Joseph, has him carry Mr. Barry's initials ...,my guy.

I remember teachers who have imprinted my sons: Matthew's Mrs. Berkowitz and Peter's Mrs. Grabo and Emmett's Mrs. Blanchard and Liam's Miss Holdernesse.... All generous heroes like Izzy and Mr. Grindey, Mrs. McCaskey and Mrs. DeShon.